Navigating Estrangement — MC Coaching

Navigating Estrangement — MC Coaching

You were running
on empty.

And still you showed up. Still you tried.
Still you are here, trying to understand.

One mother at a time

Work With Me
Mercedes Cue

"This is hard to carry alone.
And you do not have to."

I have lived on both
sides of this silence.

Mercedes Cue brings a perspective to estrangement that almost no one else in this field can claim.

Her professional background spans finance, psychology, and family systems — giving her a rare ability to see estrangement not just as an emotional wound but as a systemic pattern with identifiable causes and practical solutions.

But what truly sets her apart is this: she has lived it. She has been estranged from her mother, her brother, and her son. She has sat on both sides of the silence — as the person who left, and as the person left behind. She knows what it costs to leave and what it costs to be left. She knows the difference between surviving estrangement and actually healing it — because she has done both.

She has been coaching mothers through estrangement for years, and every session is informed by both her training and her scars. She knows about pain. She knows about healing it.

Coaching Training

Mentor Coach, certified coaching program

Family Systems

Coursework at Universidad de las Américas
Minuchin · Bowen · Dr. Ramani

Education

Sarah Lawrence College

Published Author

Two books on estrangement for mothers

Substack Writer

Navigating Estrangement — 270+ subscribers

Based In

Barcelona, Spain — working globally

"Mercedes is patient, knowledgeable, and supportive. She sees connections and patterns that you might not recognize — which helps with processing and learning yourself better."
Coaching client, Foundation Package — 2026

A space to look clearly,
without destroying yourself.

Because these patterns are so deeply ingrained, so woven into who we became as mothers, they are almost impossible to see in ourselves. We don't see the water we swim in.

That is not weakness. That is what it means to be human.

The Foundation Package is a six-session engagement designed to give you the time, space, and honest companionship to begin finding solid ground. We work through what happened, what it means, and what — if anything — might be possible from here.

To discuss whether this is right for you, write to me. No commitment required.

Write to Mercedes

The Foundation Package

Six Sessions — Individual Coaching

  • Six one-on-one sessions, video or phone
  • Work at your own pace, in your own language
  • Family systems lens — no blame, no judgment
  • The Mother Types™ framework
  • Honest, direct feedback when you need it
  • Support between sessions by email
  • Available in English and Spanish
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Individual coaching only. No group programs. One mother at a time.

Books

For the mother who needs
words for what she is carrying.

Both books came from the same place: the belief that understanding is the beginning of solid ground. Written for the mother who is trying to make sense of something that feels impossible to make sense of.

Workbook

Navigating Estrangement: Finding Solid Ground When Your Adult Child Pulls Away

A practical, dignity-first workbook for mothers in the midst of estrangement. Exercises, frameworks, and honest guidance for finding your footing when the ground has shifted beneath you.

Find on Amazon →    Find on Gumroad →
New

When Your Child Walks Away: A Mother's Handbook

The companion handbook for mothers navigating adult child estrangement. Clear, warm, and unflinching — for the mother who needs to understand what is happening and why.

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Writing

From the Substack

Every week I write about estrangement — the patterns, the pain, and the possibility of understanding it. These are some of the pieces that have resonated most.

Something Changed: Making Sense of Why Estrangement Is Happening Now

What if the rules changed midstream — and nobody told us?

Read on Substack →

When Estrangement Becomes Triangulation

On the dynamics that turn distance into something more deliberate.

Read on Substack →

Can I Come Out Now?

I forgot he was in there. What the time-out taught him — and what it may have taught yours.

Read on Substack →
Read All Writing

You don't have to
carry this alone.

If something you have read here felt familiar — if you recognised yourself, even a little — I would be glad to hear from you.

There is no commitment in writing. Just the opening of a door. Tell me where you are and what you are carrying, and we will go from there.

mercedescuecoaching@gmail.com

Mercedes Cue Coaching

Navigating Estrangement

Individual coaching for mothers navigating adult child estrangement. One-on-one, in English or Spanish, from anywhere in the world.

LocationBarcelona, Spain
SessionsVideo or phone, worldwide
LanguagesEnglish & Spanish
Emailmercedescuecoaching@gmail.com
Substackmercedescue788560.substack.com